Fixing a Dating site

READ VERY VERY CAREFULLY and Don't apply if you don't have the required skills, DON'T WASTE my time or your time:- I need someone / company who is expert on PHP, ASP, HTML, CSS, CMS, Are you very experienced on installing payment gateways especially FORTE Payments [login to view URL] ? I own this website [login to view URL] and If you think you are the man for the job you MUST sign up and check it FIRST. I need the following to be Fixed the messaging system 1) Add word Delete under the Rubbish Symbol and make it work as a button 2) Create REPLY button 3) Create Attach photos Button and function with messages. 4) After logging in you will find members page and 2 profiles I need them to be deleted and once you login automatically you be on the search Page. 5) The Upper list of functions right hand side need to be restructured and be MORE user friendly = Dashboard 6) REPLACE the current PayPal payment with Forte Payment ( I'll sign up with Forte Payment [login to view URL]) 7) I need Search Engine optimisation ( I'll give you the key words) and activate the Social media icons on the website after you create accounts on Facebook, Twitter, YouTube and instagram by using the email of the website which I'll provide later or can be seen on the website Notification emails need to be created and MUST be sent to members in the following times: 1) when any new member sign up he/she need to receive a confirmation email to congratulate them on joining [login to view URL] 2) when updating their profiles 3) when changing passwords. 4) when updating their emails. 5) When uploading or changing photos. 6) The chat service need to be fixed. I've signed up for Mailchimp for free newsletters and I can provide you with key