SQL Driven website

I am looking for someone to create a website that is both a blog like [login to view URL], and also has an area for match making (matrimonial). It also needs to make a database of members, and I need to have admin privilege to male changes etc to the whole website. Need user sign on and password reset capability, etc. You might already have a template you can use. I prefer you use SQL driven database, but then the host has to support the same. I don't have a host yet. You can recommend some for me. I am based in USA. If you have templates or samples of website you have created, please let me know so I can look at it. As I get more feedback, I will provide more details. I want to display Google ads on the side, so I can get some revenue. SEO is a must. Thank you.