I am web designer in Milwaukee, Wisconsin. I would not suggest flash, per se, but of course you do want a strongly visually appealing site that looks great on all devices. I can be patient as well. A solid site like this cannot be done in 3 days, or even really a week. I would think though in two weeks we could have a solid finished product. In regards to getting people to the site, I am also very familiar with working with Google Ad Words, of which I can help you set up and walk you through. Of course the site will be built with solid Search Engine Optimization, but good optimization takes months to be fully implemented and indexed by Google. Do not believe people who say they can get your site to #1 in the first week. Typically Google spiders sites about every two weeks. Good luck with your project. Feel free to message me any questions you have.