Need a Dateing/Membership site

Hi I need to create a membership/dateing site. I am using Wordpress with Elementor plug in and also the Ultimate member plugin. I have a domain name and hosting at wordpress. It would be very beneficial if you know how to use the ultimate member plugin because I intend to use their theme in the site and you also need to know all of their extensions like friends, groups, reviews, user photos, social wall, albums , reporting system etc The site is pretty much complete I just need help to fine tune everything and I can explain better via skype . I speak English and if you do the same then that would be great  The most important things I need on the site is to connect the paid membership so that if users want to join my site the need to buy via paypal, also need to improve the already existing search function so the members of the site can have more search criteria then just a name for example search for the city where a member lives, height, gender, hair color, eye color etc You can have all the time in the world and I hope its not hard work to be done. Best wishes Toni