Customize my wordpress theme

Ok guys, I have a wordpress theme installed on a website (homecare stop .com) I want to edit the following things, should be pretty simple for someone who knows wordpress. - Primary Menu: Arrange by order, not by alphabetics. - Add text and icons (Facebook, Twitter, RSS) next to Subscribe. - Make RSS and Sitemap page that go along with theme design. - Categories should display how many posts there is in each - Categories Drop Down to sub categories. - Left and Right widgets do not seem to be working, need to be fixed. - Must use the right widget to display Amazon products in a nice way. - Home page should display a grid, of recent posts. - Increase the width of the body. $4 per hour is what I can do.